[ Before Get Going ]

With Allah's love

Assalamualykum to all

Well, before I disappear again, I would like to share an entry, actually an e-mail I got from my friend, Mr Asaktor (thanx kay)..

Lately, I've been receiving lots of entry and mails similar to this one. Each of them talking about how precious a wife is, or a mother etc. So, I guess, like I usually do, here it goes. Have fun y'all..!! Adios! =)

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Hargailah isteri anda....... 

Mulianya seorang isteri disisi Allah... 

Dan betapa berharganya wanita yang bergelar isteri ini pada keluarga, suami dan anak2 

Rugi dan binasalah suami-suami yang tidak menghargai isteri mereka kerana isteri inilah yang akan membantu mereka di akhirat kelak.Biarlah buruk mana isteri anda, sayangilah mereka...... 

Beruntungnya seorang wanita yang ada rahim ini ialah dia bekerja dengan Tuhan... jadi 'kilang ' manusia. Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti bergaji penuh.... 7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib sembahyang tetapi Allah anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya. 

Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari ,  

Bila dah bersalin tu, susukanlah anak...jgn takut "kendur" atau menggelebeh pulak...   

Si suami pulak, jgn la berebut dengan anak untuk menyusu pulak...... Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah ,   Tapi bila dah habis cuti tu.. . layanlah suami..."offer" lah pada suami ,   Nabi bersabda: berjimak dgn isteri itu pahala...jangan buat deekkk jeee,   Jangan buat alasan itu dan ini pulak....ingat tu si isteri yee!!!  Kata nak pahala lebih...   

Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari sembahyang..... sembahyang wajib baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawanya... 

Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita, Sepanjang dia mengandung Allah sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya, Lahir saja bayi seluruh dosanya habis. Inilah nikmat Tuhan beri kepada wanita, jadi kenapa perlu takut nak beranak? 

Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah. Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin, itu dianggap mati syahid, Allah izinkan terus masuk Syurga. Untuk orang bukan Islam,  dia tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran seksa kubur.   Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang bersuami seluruh kebaikan suaminya, semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung. 

Di akhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat dengan pahala extra yang banyak dia terima di atas segala kebaikan suaminya yang tak disedari. Contohnya bila dia redha suaminya pergi berjemaah di masjid atau ke majlis ilmu, bersedekah.. ganjaran Alah ke atasnya jua. . 

Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat dia tak nak masuk syurga tanpa suaminya, jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga. Di dunia lagi, kalau suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat.

Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut, mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra ini. 

Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat di dalam dan di luar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain.. Dinasihatkan kepada semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah agar tidak derhaka denganNya. 

Sesungguhnya wanita dijadikan daripada rusuk kiri lelaki. Dia bukan dicipta dari kepala ke kaki,juga bukan dari tapak kaki. Dia dicipta dari sebelah rusuk kiri lelaki supaya dia hampir 

kepada kamu(lelaki) ,lengan lelaki dicipta untuk mempertahankan wanita,dekat dengan hati lelaki untuk disayangi. 

Woman was made from the rib of man, She was not created from his head to top him, Nor from his feet to be stepped upon, She was made from his side to be close to him, From beneath his arm to be protected by him, Near his heart to be loved by him. 

"Wahai Tuhan... ku tak layak ke syurgamu ... namun tak pula aku sanggup ke nerakamu... 

kamilah hamba yang mengharap belas darimu .... 

"Ya Allah..... jadikanlah kami hamba-hamba mu yang bertaqwa .. ampunkan dosa-dosa kami, kedua  ibubapa kami, dosa semua umat-umat islam yang masih hidup mahupun yang telah meninggal dunia"...... 

Kubur itu gelap, cahayanya ialah Laa Ilaaha IllalLah.. Jika diletakkan langit dan bumi di sebelah dacing, dan kalimah ini di sebelah yang satu lagi, pasti lebih berat lagi nilai kalimah 'Laa ilaaha illalLah' ini. Rasulullah saw. bersabda (mafhumnya): "Wahai manusia! Ucaplah  'Laa ilaaha illalLah', kamu pasti berjaya!" 

Marilah kita ucapkan kalimah ini:  "Laa ilaaha illallah!" x 10 

Never forget to share,

Cleo
~ Creating Ideas, Developing Words ~

[ Celaru, Keliru dan Haru biru ]

With Allah's love

Assalamu'alykum to my dear...

Hmm.... After the last entry, I've got so lil time to sit back and think about all the thing happening around me. I'd just got up from sleep and can't go back to sleep, don't know why. My room mate is still in her deep sleep. Yukkuri yasumi neh, su-chan. =)

My life become a bit different, after I received an sms from my friend. An sms telling me about our former friend's condition. It's shocking enough to know that he's in the ICU. And the next thing I know the next morning is that, he's gone, forever. Even though we didn't communicate much with each other, but still... I feel like... I don't know how to describe it. it's lie feeling so empty, yet so burdened. I didn't even have the chance to attend his funeral. It's so sad, you know. Reading the comments, status, and entries tribute to him, Sharfuddin, from our friends, really making me crying. No one expect that he's the first one to go before us. Sharfuddin, may Allah bless you over there, may Allah take care of you over there.

http://dzulagil.blogspot.com/2010/07/jumaat-16-julai-2010-seperti-kelaziman.html

Allah loves you more, and wanna take you near to him, to make sure there will be no more hurting for you. Have a nice rest, my dear friend....al-fatihah.... ---<@

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Well, lots of unpredictable things happening around and we can't simply handle it perfectly. We can just try and keep on trying to make it be the best in our life. With the M3P around, I'm so exhausted and a lil down when I can't contribute my best effort to each task I was assigned to. Nothing going on perfectly and people kept feeling hurt or even angry with my cooperation. Everything I do seems like nothing to them. I am so sorry that I can't help you guys to make things perfectly perfect. I was so stupid and I can't even think of anything better to contribute. I'm sorry.

Maybe this is how you feel when someone you know had just leave you behind and at the same time, you didn't have the time to take a break to think and accept things around. It's hard. It is really hard. Not long before this one, my grandparent had passed away too and I didn't have the chance to go to his funeral too. OMG. Now I know how my mother felt all this time...hmm....

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To my lil bro (who called me his lil sis), I will always by your side, dear. Please be strong, please... Do stop joining them in sports at this rate, my dear. Enough with what they did to your leg, enough with what they did to your belongings. I don't want them to hurt you anymore, dear. We can't expect how far they would go to make sure you can't be who you are, because they just can't simply accept it. With today's atmosphere, you need to be more careful and alert. Bro, do leave them as far as you can. I know you pretty sure who am I talking about, don't you bro?

They're just some stupid school boys, oriented by stupid guys, doing stupid things and you just can't simply walk into their stupid game. You are a brilliant guy, you are a smart thinker. Naim, you are one of the best person I'd ever know. People are not perfect but you're someone who can differentiate good and bad, not like them.

Bro, I don't wanna see you getting hurt anymore. Coming back from school with "broken" leg. Not a single scratch on your body, your heart, and your future anymore. I know you love sports so much, I know, and I understand how it feels like when you can't go out and have some fun on the field. But please, my dear. That's the only place where they can hit you and make it looks like an accident. Wake up, bro! They can't except it, when you won over the champion. They can't bear it when you could go further in everything you participate, more than them. Bro, it's not the time to be mister nice guy right now. You need to be smart and save your future. It's not a coward, it's called a wise. Think about it, bro.

O Allah, please take good care of my bro for me, for my parents. There's nothing we can do without Your help...

Having a spinning life
Cleo
~ Creating Ideas, Developing Words ~

[ Unpredictable is Me ]

With Allah's love

Assalamu'alykum my dear

How are you today? Me? Just tell me about it. Unpredictable, is what I'm made of. Unpredictable is my life. I don't know. You tell me, is it right or wrong. Truly, when they ask if I'm okay or not, only one thing I can say, "Yep, just fine." =)

But actually, it's hurting me day by day. I can never forget what he said that day. To that guy: Awak, sy sedar la sy tak sehebat kawan-kawan kite yg laen. Sy sedar la sy selalu je buat benda lain dari yg lain. Dan mungkin ape yg sy buat tu tak patut dibuat bg sy. Tapi awak sama kan sy ngan dia?? Ape motif awak..? Sy amat sgt terasa yg mendalam kalo ape yg sy fikirkan ni betul. Kalo betul, kenape perlu awk nafikan hari tu..?

That is one thing. And lately, hmm... Lots of things came out ironically. Ergh.... I don't know how to tell you, my dear.

I have to leave behind Totoro, my most beloved kitty and three other new born kittens.

Lots of people start to call me 'sis' or even worst a 3rd year student. -.-"

Cleo ngan Wani terpisah starting from today sampai habis degree.

My partner in PMF back out. I need to do the work alone now.

I need to take his place and meet the dean in this week. You know how much I hate to communicate with people, rite? Please........

I don't know what to say in tomorrow's meeting. These people DID NOT CARE at all! They even gave me the wrong contact number!

I don't know what to do when it's time for me to go to JPPel and PPP. Geez! Where's everbody when it's their fault...!!!

I can't register my name for my major subject! The heck!

I can't even complete any of my task perfectly.

I don't know. I'm not trying to say that I'm angry with my fate but I'm just trying to list down these sticky, disturbing things. Urghhhh....!!!!

S   E   R   A   B   O   T    !    !    !

tOiN ToIn

Cleo
~ Creating Ideas, Developing Words ~